How come i can’t talk to my boyfriend?
Ok this is long but i need help. Ok my boyfriends ex wife has been working for him. Well he owns his own business and he needs help with paperwork. She is going to school to be a nurse and needs some money. Its ok because she helps him out and takes stress away from his job. He used to have to meet her near the Michigan line and it was too far for him to drive. So she brings his daughter down. Well recently she told his son she was going to be the next supermodel and she is getting lasik eye sugery. My boyfriend likes skinny girls. Well she is trying to get him back his eight year old son told me this. He said she has done this before and being really nice and when she gets back with my his dad she puts the itch in you know what. The reason my boyfriend likes me is because i am nice. I am nicer to his daughter than her own mother. He has told me that. He tells me he loves me. He used to say he wanted to have kids with me but now he hasn’t said it recently. Last time he didn’t say tha the broke up with me. We have been together for eight months and broken up twice but for a couple of days so we don’t count that. I want to ask him if he would consider getting back with her if she wants him back. I don’t know if he knows. If he does it wouldn’t bother me because if he wanted to he would of. If he doesn’t know and she tells him he might want to. I have been divorced and hurt by him and my ex had an affair on me. He wants a housewife too and she is trying to be a nurse. i am being the housewife. I don’t want to stick around for him to end things. I don’t have a job if he did i would be screwed. he doesn’t like to talk about being jelous and stuff like that. I need to know because i don’t want to be hurt. What do i do
His son has a differnt mother
Your boyfriend sounds like an idiot. Does he have the letter "L" plastered on his forhead or what? This is neither a man or a father. Move on to a better love.
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:16 pm
I would sit him down and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you feel intimidated by her or scared to loose him and you’d rather he just be upfront if he likes her. If he loves you, you’ll know. and if he isn’t sure who he wants then its better for the both of you if you move on. I won’t be easy either way.
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February 2nd, 2010 at 3:05 pm
Your boyfriend sounds like an idiot. Does he have the letter "L" plastered on his forhead or what? This is neither a man or a father. Move on to a better love.
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Sometimes you have to change the life you planned, in order to find the life you were meant to live.
February 2nd, 2010 at 3:38 pm
Before you talk to him, please remember that children of divorced parents, usually want their parents to stay together, or get back together, and they can be pretty smart when it comes to how to facilitate that (including sensing jealousy and playing on it)
This may be nothing, but an innocent child wanting his or her parents to be back together again, rather than someone else with mom, or someone else with dad.
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